Ministry is exhausting. This is true for the church planter who is just getting his core group together or the minister who’s had years of ministry experience. Exhaustion in ministry is real, and burnout seems to come for the best of us. But it doesn’t have to. It is quite possible to do all that God has called you to do, but it requires us to return to the humble way of Christ. Humility may be an unexpected suggestion, but it honestly shouldn’t be. Humility was the very thing that set the first-century church apart.
Our modern context is not so different from the first-century church. The concept of “humility” was largely despised in the cultural climate of the first century, much like it is for us today. If you walked the streets of Corinth, Ephesus, or Galatia and you heard someone was “tapeinophrosynē/humble,” you probably would have gasped at the insult. Markus Barth, the Swiss New Testament Scholar, said, “The entire word group which belongs with tapeinophrosynē, according to its usage in common Greek, is used in a negative sense and means a low slavish orientation.”[1] And yet, it was the humility of Christ embraced by those first disciples of Jesus that created stability, security, and confidence for those local churches.
Look at the words of Paul:
Humility was the necessary virtue that was cultivated to keep people from different backgrounds and contexts brought together by the risen Messiah to remain united into one new multi-ethnic and multi-generational family of God. And it is exactly what Jesus invites us into.
The power of pursuing humility in ministry is the rest you will find—the renewed sense of self-awareness without the entrapment of self-obsession—and how it points to the power of Christ amid our very real weakness.
Humility invites us into an exchange of yokes where we find true rest.
In Matthew 11:28-30, Jesus contrasts the heavy burden of the law propagated by the religious rulers of the time with his light and comfortable burden. The language is specific; it is an exchange of yokes, not a removal of yokes. We may pause here and consider what heavy burdens we bear. Often, for pastors, these burdens are self-imposed by expectation, ambition, and desire. These aren’t inherently bad, but without aim and proper motivation, they can become a snare for our hearts. How fast is the church growing? How “good” was my sermon? What are my ministry friends doing? Why are the sermon clips that they post doing so much better than the ones I’m posting? Jesus offers us another way. It is his way of humility that begins with an exchange of yokes. His reference to the yoke could be either a human yoke, which was placed on the shoulders of a person to balance the weight and lessen the strain on the body, or an animal yoke, which connected two animals to pull the burden together.
I think the imagery here is rich and beautiful for a few reasons. First, because God, in his kindness, never desires his children to be crushed by an unbearable weight. This is why he gives us a yoke. Further, the yoke is bearable because Jesus himself carries the burden with us and, in fact, front-loads it. While it is impossible for us to truly take on “the yoke of the Law”—to follow the Law completely—Jesus does so perfectly.[2]
Jesus wants us to learn from him because he is both gentle and humble. In the English Standard Version, the Greek word translated as “gentle” in verse 29 (praus) refers to “freedom from pretension (1 Peter 3:14–15), gentleness (Matthew 11:29; James 3:13), and patient endurance of injury—where it is proper to endure.”[3] Jesus calls us to share his yoke; there is room for us next to him. We don’t have to be crushed by the burdens placed on us. It’s true, we will still carry burdens and walk through fears; but in the midst of all of this, we can turn our head to the side and see Christ next to us, walking with us through them and experiencing his peace and the rest he provides.
Humility grants us self-awareness without the entrapment of self-obsession.
You may have heard this phrase, “Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less.” There is some debate on the origins of this quote, though it’s historically been attributed to C.S Lewis. I love this quote and think it is so helpful. I also want to expand it a bit by pointing to where humility starts. Humility shouldn’t start first with ourselves; it ought to start first with God. I would summarize biblical humility as a three-part movement. Humility is first an awareness of who God is, which defines who we are, so we can rightly relate to other people. The order matters. Humility starts with knowing God so we can truly know ourselves, and with this understanding, we are equipped to rightly relate to others. Pride suggests the story starts with us. Pride promises clarity but delivers a distorted reality that places me, myself, and I at the center of creation. Pride robs us of our self-awareness and leads us deep into self-obsession, but humility re-orients us to God and regains our self-awareness. John Stott once said, “If pride and madness go together, so do humility and sanity.”[4]
Humility reminds us of the power of Christ in our very present weakness.
We live in a society that wants to eliminate every weakness. The world suggests that to be weak and have limits is to be associated with “losers”. And frankly, it’s not even the world. This same impulse and ethos can be found in the undercurrent of conversations at ministry conferences where discussions are framed around “ministry success” and “growth.” And the truth of the matter is that not every day is a success. Sometimes the reality of our ministry is pruning, not extravagant growing. The great theologian J.I. Packer wrote, “Weakness is the way.” It is the way for us to come to terms with our limits and accept our weaknesses. It's at this spot that we are perfectly positioned to experience the provision and power of Christ. Romans 5:6 says it this way: “While we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly.” (ESV) What good news. Your value and worth do not come from what you do or achieve but in what Christ has done and achieved. You are not defined by your ministry's success. You are not defined by your ministry’s failure. Your value and worth comes intrinsically from being made in the likeness and image of God (Gen. 1:26-27).
Humility isn’t something to be achieved and move on from. It is something that must be cultivated and constantly returned to. It is a gift for everyone, especially those of us in ministry. The hidden peace we long for is found as we “put on” the humility of Christ. I can think of no better reason to pursue humility than this.
Recommended Resource:
The Hidden Peace by Joel Muddamalle
[1] Markus Barth and Helmut Blanke, eds., and Astrid B. Beck, trans.,
Colossians: A New Translation with Introduction and Commentary, vol. 34B
of The Anchor Yale Bible, ed. John J. Collins (New Haven: Yale University
Press, 2008), 343.
[2] Leon Morris, The Gospel According to Matthew, The Pillar New Testament
Commentary (Grand Rapids, MI: William B. Eerdmans, 1992), 296. New Testament scholars are divided on whether the yoke in view here is a
human yoke or animal yoke. I tend to believe that both can be in view but
the metaphor/image should not be taken further than the text allows.
[3] Grant R. Osborne, Matthew, vol. 1 of Zondervan: Exegetical Commentary
on the New Testament, ed. Clinton E. Arnold (Grand Rapids, MI:
Zondervan, 2010), 443.
[4] John R. W. Stott, “Pride, Humility and God,” C. S. Lewis Institute,
Sovereign Grace Magazine, September/October 2000, http://www.
cslewisinstitute.org/webfm_send/375.