God has designed us with beautiful and diverse tastes in clothes, foods, interests, and learning styles.
While it may seem obvious that our unique outlook on life does not get erased when we come to Jesus, many of us assume that it does—in one key area…choosing our pathway to intimacy with God. If we ignore our own passions and personality and try to follow a pathway to God that someone else has set for us—such as our such as a pastor, or teacher, or religious professional—we do a disservice to how God has made us. We will ultimately find ourselves spiritually frustrated, demotivated, or even bitter.